Ineffable Ontological Detanglement .: Introspective Assistance & Mental Analysis Manual
You assume your outlook, your attitude and your behaviour is the base default. You assume that your internal response in all situations is the base default, that's the way we all naturally feel. Some of us don't really know what we're doing, we behave in bizarre off the wall manners that to you feel like a blurry haze of things to ignore and label and create false memories over. However these people don't really actually exist because everybody knows the way in which you feel in all situations is the agreed upon default.
When somebody does something you understand their motivations because you understand what your motivations would be in behaving in... The... Manner that you think you're seeing however you're within a sea of incorrect analysis and self confirmation and you never really actually have any idea how to properly label the behaviour you are observing.
You are within the cultural conditioning standard that all raising of the voice is an attempt to draw attention, aggressively dominate the discussion. Therefor when you raise your voice, you feel it as a strain, an overstatement, you're being try hard, you're straining to get it done and you know your only motivation in getting it done is proving that you don't care about it, you don't care about the thing that you are blissfully unaware is a cultural conditioning standard. The result is you being a big attention sucking asshole. Therefor anybody else who ever raises their voice, types in all caps, is motivated only by being this, they're just pathetically trying to prove to everybody that they don't care about the thing they are blissfully unaware is a cultural conditioning standard, they're obviously pathetically straining to get it out I mean look at this pathetic whimper he's obviously automatically disproving everything he says look at him struggle look at him crack.
...Your super happy ego monitoring looking them up and down in this moment may actually cause them to struggle and crack. There you go you won the argument, you get to add this to your library of self confirmation.